. . .Lets talk about sex. . .

"Compulsive-obsessive fucking" seems to be the contemporary assertion of manhood. After reading bell hook's We Real Cool, Ive had my eyes opened. The recognizance of the Male paradox of power has allowed me to gain a newer perspective of sex.

Through exegesis and excogitation (new fav dependant clause), Ive noticed that males feel they can erradicate past feelings pf lonliness,inferiority, and lack of masculinty through sex. In actuality, sex only reafirms those feelings. When resoring to sex for the abolishment of these feelings and to gain a sense of manhood back, dudes must acknowledge the power of females;they possess the ability to both erect us whenever they get the urge to and withhold their private parts from males.

Through sex however, men subconsciously see fucking as a way to do two things: reclaim their sense of superiority and put females back (yes I said back--we live in a patriarchal society) in their place of inferiority. Sex in this case is seen as a game of dominance and submission; the game where men act as pawns seeking to reclaim manhood from their queens.

These sexual politics are huge indications of weaknesses for a man and also a female. Through "Compulsive-obsessive fucking" dudes inadvertently acknowledge the paradox that the can only find pleasure in the pursuit of power and power in the pursuit of pleasure. That the only way they can attain power is through subjugating a woman during an act of sex/pleasure. They are admitting extreme weakness/cowardliness by this. This shows that men who obsessively fuck cant seek out other mediums to assert their manhood; other mediums that will allow them to attain power in other ways. So can anyone tellme why prostitutes work for weak ass pimps? Or Why do masqueraded hoes habitually fall victim to weak ass playas?

This approach to sex is wrong. Sex should be embraced without external labels, intent to belittle or compete with the mate, or even presure to impress the mate. Before sex you and your partner should consider having a candid dialogue (I'm starting to sound like Cornell West in Race Matters lol) to share your motives and intentions. After this bleak conversation, the two (or three) of you should have an aura of equality between each other. This will make the intercoarse more pleasurable.

Sex should be approached as a chance to strengthen a bond not to boost your ego. Sex is important when embraced as mentioned above. Oftent times it is missused and results in many people becoming afraid to partake in the act. As one who has enjoyed it on both sides of the pixie stick, I can asure those indecisive about sex that it is 5% physical, 15% the mentality you have during, and 80% the approach you take to it.

I hope I helped some of you and possibly gave some of you an excuse to indulge in it more...I only ask that you all stop abusing the sentiment of sex.

Hooks, Bell. We Real Cool: Black Men and Masculinity. New York: Routledge, 2003. Print.

Its okay...We know you're a bitch =)

By way of many teachings from my mother, I have always expressed an aversion towards addressing females as "Bitches". However, after watching "Hip Hop:Beyond Beats and Rhymes" my position on that seems a bit specious. I made the generalization that no woman should be addressed as a Bitch, never considering that maybe some women may choose to be addressed as such. In the movie the director, Byron Hurt, interviewed a young man that broke women into two categories: Sisters and Bitches. Sisters being the ones that dress themselves as respectable women whilst the bitches are being labeled because the participate in the commodification of their sexuality that hip hop has idolized. It seems as if the more a female conforms to the standards set by Hip Hop to be "sexy" the more they are eligible to be labeled as a bitch. I dont agree with this 100 percent....YET. But I'm sure through exegesis and excogitation that I will soon find enough corroborations to alter my approach of addressing females. Blogspot....wanna debate???

Spanish or Chinese?

Can anybody drive a Jeff?...I need some steering right about now. Right now everyone is dying to register for their classes and suit themselves in the best position to make the best our of next semester. Not me... I'm being as strategic as possible. With that, I must take a foreign language.

The U.S. Census Bureau says that currently Hispanics occupy 14% of Americas population; by the year 2050 that will increase by 10%. Meaning America has a rapidly growing Hispanic population.

Apart from that, China is becoming a global monopoly. It seems as if in the business world going global is the equivalent to getting a doctorate while just being national is a mere high school degree.

With the Hispanic population rapidly growing and China's hegemony growing just as fast, who's culture should I embrace? Which foreign language should I take up?

HAPPY HUNDRED!!

"They say if you ain't got no money, take yo broke ass home. I say if you got two dollars then come through to my party".....ITS MY HAPPY 100th PARTY!!! WHOOOOO HOOOOO My most previuos post was my 100th post. I feel established now. It seems to me that a certain number of followers or posts conveys how serious of a blogger you are. Althought I previously lost a follower, =(, I feel pretty damn good about my blog. I hope that I can continue to sustain you all's interest and you all do the same. Thanks for the support!!